The other day I was talking with one of my best friends, and, although we're like a thousand miles apart, we struggle with similar things. I know being in a relationship takes effort, but so does being single - truly single that is. And being content with being single? Now that's hard to come by and even harder to make peace with within yourself. Some say that singleness is chosen. I wouldn't go that far. Yes, we decide if we want to enter into a relationship or not, but in all honesty, there has to be someone worth giving our time to, because who wants to waste their days with someone who isn't worth their time? I know I don't. It's also a subject that usually comes with negativity. Which shouldn't be. I thoroughly enjoy going on Pinterest and most of the time I spend on it is compiling quotes. I found these quotes and sent them to my best friend the other day. I hope they help change your perspective even the slightest bit. Herein lies a Pinterest 12 point philosophy about singleness (and I agree with): 1. It's not easy to hear, but we all know it's true. We can't force it. 2. You might be such an amazing woman (or at least that's what you hear from your mom...), but you need to remember that your future relationship is a two way street. Even if you think you're ready, maybe he's not at that point yet. 3. If a man really, truly wants to be with you for who you are and not your body, he will do everything in his power to not only let you know but won't be afraid to let others know as well. Look for signs. If they're not there, don't waste your time. 4. He might be praying for you right now. You could do the same. Just because you're not together or may not have met yet doesn't mean that you cannot pray for or about them. Might as well start your relationship off right =] 5. As a follower of God, it's already tough. But to find a man who shares similar views, beliefs, and morals as you, you almost want to forget about it. But don't! He's out there, I promise! Don't lose hope and remember these 10 things when you feel lonely: 6. Singleness can produce a lot of good stuff! For example, you are able to get to know who you really, truly are. Get to know yourself! You may change as you go through different phases of life, but find out who you are right now. And when the time comes for an opportunity for a relationship, you can make sure that you choose to be with that person, not the loneliness inside of you. 7. Having standards is a beautiful and wonderful thing. Don't be afraid to have high standards. Yes, that may eliminate some men who come along who wish to take you out or whatever they do these days, but it will help you find a man who is quality and totally worth your time. 8. No one else should have the jurisdiction to tell you how to feel. 9. Putting yourself first may be one of the hardest things some of us learn how to do in life. But, it's worth it. Do things for you that don't require anyone else's opinion or presence. Do you bro. 10. We all know men are REALLY bad at asking for directions, so just remember... 11. Don't be afraid of leaving. It all boils down to needing to do what is best for you, no matter what circumstance or situation you may be in, single or not. 12. Last but not least, I think my good friend Will said it best... For This Time, Cambria
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